我的啟蒙 - 4 儒者愚也 施者輸也

儒者愚也 施者輸也

        曾經有名釆說「蠢人分三種，一是自己知道是蠢人的蠢人，二是自己不知道是蠢人的蠢人，第三種就是自以為聰明的蠢人。」

       儒者就是第一種的死蠢，蠢在那股 '知其不可為而為之' 、 '非不能也，不為也' 的風骨。活在今日的自由社會，蠢是自己的選擇。

       樂於付出的人都不會計較施予，因為善忘是人的本性，幫助別人更要顧及受惠人的尊嚴，打個譬方說，借出的錢很難收得回，有時就連朋友都失掉。在施予前倒要先行計算自己可以輸得起多少，包括可能會就此煙歿的友情............
       我那闕「  無悔」靈感泉源來自論語：言寡尤，行寡悔；

 

       培養心性寬懷，將愚蠢化為善美，來個活得精釆吧！

 

2013年8月11 日  HY 虹玉

聽聽前輩名歌手 Connie Francis 的一曲 Everybody 's somebody's fool 也算得上是當下啟蒙，失過戀的朋友，此曲歌詞會有助化解愛情悔怨。

The tears I cried for you could fill an ocean

But you don't care how many tears I cry

And though you only lead me on and hurt me

I couldn't bring myself to say goodbye

'cause everybody's somebody's fool

Everybody's somebody's plaything

And there are no exceptions to the rule

Yes, everybody's somebody's fool

I told myself it's best that I forget you

Though I'm a fool at least I know the score

Yet darlin' I'd be twice as blue without you

It hurts but I'd come runnin' back for more

'cause everybody's somebody's fool

Everybody's somebody's plaything

And there are no exceptions to the rule

Yes, everybody's somebody's fool

Someday you'll find someone you really care for

And if her love should prove to be untrue

You'll know how much this heart of mine is breakin'

You'll cry for her the way I cry for you

Yes, everybody's somebody's fool

Everybody's somebody's plaything

And there are no exceptions to the rule

Yes, everybody's somebody's fool